Unfold your heart. Sharpen your ears. And never say no to the world when it asks you to dance. ~Tahereh Mafi, Furthermore
From the time your baby was born, you probably held them to your chest and the two of you felt the beating of one another’s hearts. As you relaxed into one another, you began to match breath for breath, creating a sense of peace and calm for you both. You instinctually patted a gentle steady beat on your baby’s diapered bum, or rocked slowly to a steady rhythm that only you could hear. Steady beat begins with your baby hearing your heartbeat in the womb and its importance is carried with them throughout their whole life. Experiencing steady beat with your child and, later, allowing them to explore and create steady beat themselves is a foundational skill that can be build upon throughout their lives. Read more...
Yesterday, I had a whole lovely blog post about owls… and my WordPress ate it. It was all rather frustrating, as it took almost three times as long as the amount of time I had carved out for it, and so I decided to walk away for a little and try again today. As I tell my children, it is ok to walk away from something if it is frustrating you. That gives you space to decide what to do next. And so… here we are. Owls. Take two.
I can, in newly quickened inner life,
Sense wide horizons in myself.
The force and radiance of my thought —
Coming from soul’s sun power —
Can solve the mysteries of life,
And grant fulfillment now to wishes
Whose wings have long been lamed by hope.
(From Calendar of the Soul, Week 28, translation by Ruth and Hans Pusch)
I don’t think I blogged about it, but right before Michael (remember little Michael?!?!?) went off to college, he and I went on a trip to Disney World. We saw all four parks in our time there, and it was a wonderful relaxing time. I’d like to think we made some amazing memories, and it was so good to bond with him before he went away. I miss him terribly.
At one point, I looked at him and said “You know, I wish I could have afforded to bring you all here when you were little. As much fun as we’re having, it would be so awesome to see the look of wonder and experience the park through a small child’s eyes.” Read more...
Originally, the post I had planned for today was how to celebrate feasts and festivals without appropriating culture. That still may come. But I woke up this morning to the news of (yet another) mass shooting and, as a good friend of mine pointed out on Facebook, for the fifth time in my life saw headlines declaring it the deadliest mass shooting in modern history. And I wept. Read more...
Blessed Michaelmas! Technically, Michaelmas (or the Feast of St. Michael) is today, September 29. For us, it is also Nicholas’s birthday, so we will be celebrating Saturday. We’re not 100% certain what we’ll be doing, but some ideas include… Read more...
Making a blackberry pie. Legend has it that you shouldn’t eat blackberries after Michaelmas because the devil spat on them when he was cast out of heaven. I’m not so sure about that, but blackberries are always yummy. Even on the keto diet, I can probably have some blackberries and clotted cream, or I could try low-carb blueberry cobbler (but with blackberries!) or low-carb berry cheesepie, which looks delicious.